“Fear — a Tough Reflection”
by Kelvin Chin
Life After Life Expert
Fear can be used as a means to self neglect. Albeit unconsciously.
In particular, the fear of moving forward in a productive, healthy way.
When that happens, that can feed the phenomenon of “the Importance of Being Important.”
How?
By subconsciously causing self harm which inevitably invokes empathy, sympathy and even perhaps a public outcry — from one’s close friends, one’s loved ones…
And yes, even mere acquaintances, all shouting — “Save yourself!” “Please! We will miss you!”
All of which focuses enormous attention and energy on us — and suddenly, we feel important.
We who have neglected taking care of ourselves.
So if we each are truly being candid with ourselves, and if our goal in life is genuinely focused on self development, we may need to take a long, hard look in the mirror and ask ourselves the tough question:
“Is my fear of moving forward
actually a selfish way of drawing more attention
to myself
by creating a catastrophe through my own self neglect?”
Kelvin H. Chin is a Meditation Teacher, Life After Life Expert, and Author of “Overcoming the Fear of Death,” “Marcus Aurelius Updated: 21st Century Meditations On Living Life” and “After the Afterlife: Memories of My Past Lives.” He learned to meditate at age 19, and has been teaching Turning Within Meditation and coaching others in their self-growth for 40 years. He helps people understand their life challenges through their individual belief systems, and helps them find their own solutions. His past life memories reach back many centuries, and he accesses those memories in his teaching and his coaching in the same way all coaches draw on their own available experiences for perspective and effective analogies. He can be reached at www.TurningWithin.org.